May 3, 2019
A continuation of our conversation last week on the importance
of sex in relationships. Additional notes and links from the
show:
Psychology of finding a mate
https://www.eventbrite.com/rally/10-things-meet-someone-2018-dating-advice/
Get off the couch, go out even by yourself. Talk to people and don’t appear occupied and closed off while in public. When engaging others ask questions/talk to them about them.
Lots of stuff online all say the same thing, get offline and out of the house and talk to real human beings.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meditation-modern-life/201511/relationships-finding-great-partner
Talks about birds of a feather vs opposites attract. The conclusion is being alike fairs better.
https://www.gottman.com/blog/psychology-finally-reveals-the-answer-to-finding-your-soulmate/
Talks about that research indicate that people make relationships work not personality compatibility. When two people are willing to work at it then it works.
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/communication-and-conflict/learn-to-speak-your-spouses-love-language/understanding-the-five-love-languages
Explanation of the 5 love languages by Gary Chapman